New Year’s Resolutions can be double-edged swords, if you let them. The typical resolutions to lose weight, earn more, quit smoking, drinking, or whatever other vice (Diet Coke for me) seems daunting and casts negative air over what resolutions are supposed to be about.
Improvement. By either pledging to do something positive or remove something negative from your life.
Resolutions aren’t a reset, but a re-check. Make sure your headed in the right direction.
For many people, 2011 was uncharacteristically harsh. Judging by the Facebook and Twitter posts I’ve seen recently, most are happy to close the door on last year and usher in 2012 with the promise of something better. At least more hopeful.
I learned a lot from 2011. Mostly learned a lot about myself, my limitations, discovered new strengths, and new ‘areas of improvement.’ I met new people that have become invaluable to my writing endeavors- my ‘specialized supporters.’
Most importantly, I think I discovered how to let go of this illusion of control that I tried desperately to keep a grip on last year.
Things happen despite my best abilities to prevent them, other things don’t happen no matter how hard I tried to make them flourish. And other sideswipers come out of no where to make life even more chaotic.
This illusion of control stems from my ever-consistent behavior to internalize everything. And God love my husband and family for helping me to let that go.
So this year, my resolutions are aggressive, but much more forgiving if I lose track along the way. Just as I know my family and friends are. Supportive. Always trying to help me be my best, and forgiving when I lose track.
In addition to a few personal goals regarding family, and overall health and wellness (no New Year’s resolutions would be complete without them), here are my targets:
~Reduce my Diet Coke intake to 1/week (gradual, to prevent nasty withdrawals).
~Gym twice a week.
~Blog twice a week.
~Submit to other blogs I partake in at least once a month.
~Read 1 Book/month.
And for the daunting writing goals:
~Finish rough draft of WIP (Audrey’s Promise) by March. Specifically, write 5K words /week.
~Finish Audrey’s Promise revisions by November. Meaning, 15 pages/week.
~Finish my previous manuscript’s revisions (Rip It) by May. 20 pages/week.
~Submit either of these manuscripts to Golden Heart contest in December.
~Query Rip It to agencies/publishers starting in June. Specifically, 4 queries a week.
~Finally, plot my next novel (middle grade) by December.
These goals are evenly spaced out over the year, so I’m constantly busy with writing, but not overloaded. I think that’s my husband’s Project Management job rubbing off on me. Leave it to him to create a timeline spreadsheet for me, to help track my goals every week down to the individual word and page count. Goal tracking on steroids!
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